Prepare your rice, depending on your desired method and number of servings.
Combine 3 tablespoons of the red curry paste with the ginger and 1 tablespoon of sesame oil in a bowl. Add diced chicken and stir to combine. Set aside.
Dice the mango. Seed and dice the jalapeno. Combine in a small bowl, and add the juice and zest from one lime. Stir well and set aside for the flavours to combine.
In a large pot or Dutch oven with lid, heat the remaining tablespoon of sesame oil over medium high heat. Add chicken, and cook until browned, about 2-4 minutes.
Add remaining tablespoon of red curry paste, herbs, coconut milk, thai chilis, soy sauce and fish sauce and stir until bubbling.
Reduce heat to low, partially cover the pot and let simmer for 30 minutes.
After 30 minutes, add peanut butter and lime juice and let cook until thickened, about another 5 minutes.
Serve over rice and top with sesame seeds, sliced cucumber, mango salsa, and more fresh cilantro. Finish by squeezing lime wedges over the whole thing — enjoy!